Well, are you?
This is a bit more normal for me, lots of bokeh, some kind of thinly veiled message, angular composition. I was walking around having dropped off some prop making materials at my daughters school, and I spotted this bench. There was a very normal memorial message on it, but unusually the word happy stood out... not many people would choose to use that word in a memorial, they'd be scared of causing offense.
I got to thinking, why shouldn't a memory be happy?